How to Find Where You Belong: Meet People Who Are Your Spiritual Family
If you’re like many high-achieving women I work with, you’ve mastered the art of fitting in, yet you may not have truly found a group of supportive people where you belong.
My clients know how to succeed in professional environments. They know how to support others, carry responsibility, and adapt to what is needed. They know how to be capable, dependable, and accomplished.
Yet beneath all that competence, many carry a quiet longing.
A longing to be fully known. To belong somewhere without having to earn it. To be surrounded by people who understand not just what they do, but who they are.
On May 8 and 9, I had the privilege of gathering with colleagues from around the world for the 
Many women don’t actually know what rest feels like anymore. Even on vacation, the nervous system often stays in motion. We pack the schedule full, trying to make the most of every moment, or we collapse completely, using food, alcohol, scrolling, or sleep to recover from the pace we’ve been keeping for far too long. But neither busyness nor numbing truly restores us.
Many high-achieving women spend enormous amounts of energy caring for everyone and everything around them while quietly starving themselves of the very things that help them feel grounded, connected, and alive. We learn to survive on emotional depletion. But we can’t do that for long. 
We’re often told only half of the story. We know our bodies need nourishment to function well. Surviving on caffeine and sugar, or depriving the body of what it genuinely needs, makes us feel unwell. Energy drops. Mood shifts. Focus disappears. The body keeps the score. However, the other half of the story is that our inner life has similar needs! Just as you nourish your body, it’s important to nourish your inner life.