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Category: Life Skills

Learn how to focus on the soft skills, the people skills like good communication, effective leadership, positive motivation, and managing your emotions.

Use Your Time Wisely…Does This Really Mean What You Think It Does?

What if summer wasn't inviting you to accomplish more? What if it was inviting you to notice what no longer belongs? Could that possibly be the best way to use your time wisely?Summer has a way of creating possibility. Typically, the calendar isn’t so packed. Evenings stretch a little longer. We imagine this is finally the time to tackle everything we've been postponing. After all, you want to use your time wisely, and that means accomplishing something like:

  • Creating a new online course
  • Organizing your office
  • Bringing a new business idea to life
  • Writing the book
  • Adopting a healthier routine
  • Reading the stack of books waiting on the nightstand

For women who are driven and deeply committed to living meaningful lives, free time can quickly become another project to manage. Without realizing it, we carry an invisible list of who we think we should become if only we had enough time.

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Feeling Happy vs. Whole: Why the Difference Really Matters

Feeling happy is a beautiful emotion. It deserves to be welcomed and enjoyed. But it doesn’t define whether our lives are going well. Many women have come to believe that emotional well-being means feeling happy, calm, confident, and positive most of the time. So when anxiety appears, when grief lingers, or when uncertainty settles in, they assume something is wrong.

But what if nothing is wrong?

What if the real measure of well-being isn't how you feel on any given day, but how deeply connected you remain to yourself while your feelings come and go?

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The Advantage of An Embodied Center. Why Centering Practices Aren’t Enough.

There’s a vast difference between having centering practices and being a centered person.This may surprise you: There’s a vast difference between having centering practices and being a centered person. A centering practice can regulate your nervous system for a few minutes. An embodied center changes who you are under pressure. A centering practice is something you do. An embodied center is how you live.

What happened to my client, Laura (not her real name), illustrates this well.

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Permission to Rest, Relax and Unwind: 3 Steps to Renew Yourself Throughout the Day

Rest isn’t the reward for finishing everything; it’s the foundation that makes everything in your life sustainable. It’s what fuels your energy, creativity, and clarity.Fall has a way of pulling us into its whirlwind. The long, lingering days of summer give Life has a way of pulling us into its whirlwind. Deadlines, schedules, events, and the unspoken pressure to keep up seem relentless. Sometimes it feels like we have to force ourselves to relax and unwind, which can cause even more stress, rather than relieving it.

Slowing down may feel like a luxury you can’t afford, but here’s a new way of looking at it: rest isn’t the reward for finishing everything; it’s the foundation that makes everything in your life sustainable. It’s what fuels your energy, creativity, and clarity. Without it, you’re running on fumes.

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Regain Control by Listening to Your Body: How Food Affects Your Mood

how food affects your mood

For many high-achieving women, food isn’t just about nourishment. It’s about regulating your mood, energy, and performance. So there are many elements to consider when we’re looking at how food affects your mood.

You may eat between meetings. Or skip meals without noticing. You reach for something quick when your energy dips. At the end of the day,  you unwind with something comforting, not because you’re hungry, but because your body is asking for relief.

And often, the conversation around food gets reduced to discipline. What you should eat. What you shouldn’t. What’s “good” and what’s “bad.” But that framework misses something essential. Your relationship with food isn’t just behavioral. It’s somatic. It lives in your nervous system.

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