What The Somatic Wisdom of Hygge Can Teach Us About Feeling Safe
Recently, I spent a few days in Copenhagen with my family…and I can’t explain it in any other way than to say my nervous system exhaled. I had heard and read about hygge, but I was experiencing the somatic wisdom of hygge for myself. And it profoundly affected me…I have to share with you what I discovered!
I noticed myself gradually softening, like a room gradually settling into quiet after a busy day of activity. First, my shoulders softened. Then my breathing became deeper. I was experiencing how a place, an environment, invited me to slow down.
The people were kind and warm. And the food was deeply comforting. Copenhagen is a big city, yet it holds you in a cozy, warm embrace. Even the weather was kind to us.
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