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Five Breathing Practices for Balancing Your Life, Your Mood, and Your Relationships

Five Breathing Exercises for Balancing Your Life, Your Mood and Your RelationshipsThere’s a rhythm to everything we do. There’s an ebb and flow to life that consists of taking and giving, picking up and letting go. Our breathing follows a rhythm, too, one that responds to all that we experience throughout our lives. 

What does your breathing reveal about the quality of your life? 

Your life experience creates a breathing pattern within you. Your breathing is connected to your nervous system, and it gives clues about how you’re experiencing the world around you. When you become more aware of your breath, you also have an opportunity to notice the physical patterns that accompany your thoughts, emotions, and everyday interactions.

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How Your Breathing Pattern Reveals the Way You Really Feel

Have you ever considered that the way you breathe may reflect the way you've learned to navigate the world? 
Your breath is with you through every decision, difficult conversation, moment of uncertainty, and accomplishment. Yet have you ever considered that the way you breathe may reflect the way you've learned to navigate the world? 

Over a lifetime, your experiences shape more than your thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors. They also influence how your body responds, including the way that you breathe. Eventually, these responses have formed your breathing pattern. 

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What The Somatic Wisdom of Hygge Can Teach Us About Feeling Safe

I was seeing the somatic wisdom of hygge, not just cozy candles and blankets as décor, but a feeling of safety, a culture that has built calm and care into its everyday rhythms, so that a visitor's body recognizes it and begins to settle too.Recently, I spent a few days in Copenhagen with my family…and I can’t explain it in any other way than to say my nervous system exhaled. I had heard and read about hygge, but I was experiencing the somatic wisdom of hygge for myself. And it profoundly affected me…I have to share with you what I discovered! 

I noticed myself gradually softening, like a room gradually settling into quiet after a busy day of activity. First, my shoulders softened. Then my breathing became deeper. I was experiencing how a place, an environment, invited me to slow down.

The people were kind and warm. And the food was deeply comforting. Copenhagen is a big city, yet it holds you in a cozy, warm embrace. Even the weather was kind to us.

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Resolve Identity Lag: Saying Yes to the Job Before Saying Yes to the Identity

We often say yes to a new role, then work out how to grow into the new identity, which results in an identity lag.We often say yes to a new role, then work out how to grow into the new identity it requires of us. I see this identity lag so often in high-achieving women like Jessica, one of my clients. (Not her real name.) 

She recently stepped into a leadership role she’d been working toward for years. Her title was official, her responsibilities had expanded, and colleagues were looking to her for direction. 

Yet in meetings, she found herself second-guessing her decisions and looking to others for reassurance. She had the experience and know-how to lead, but she hadn't fully learned to trust her own authority. She found herself doing things the way she had done them previously, even though the role asked something different of her.

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What Autumn Reveals: Let Go When Something Has Completed Its Season

In nature, letting go is not the same as losing something. A fallen leaf doesn’t disappear. It breaks down and returns to the soil. Autumn doesn’t ask the trees to explain themselves before they let go. The leaves change color, loosen their grip, and fall. There’s no apology, no attempt to keep what once belonged to summer, no frantic effort to hold on just a little longer. What has completed its season is allowed to return to the earth.

However, we find it hard to let go because it feels like giving up. We’re driven to make things work, even when it’s difficult. We’re tenacious, resilient, and accustomed to finding a way forward, even when the path is demanding. 

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