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Five Ways to Mindfully Shift up Your Level of Happiness

Increase your level of happiness“Be happy for this moment. This moment is your life.” Omar Khayyam

Happiness is something we all want but how much control do we have over it? Even if you have tendencies toward negativity, you can create a happier life by (1) opening your eyes and seeing the good around you, (2) expanding your heart to appreciate each beautiful moment and (3) focusing on responding to each life circumstance that arises instead of simply reacting. It’s your choice to be happy with where you’re at in life at this moment in time.

To achieve a happy, positive attitude, it’s beneficial to incorporate mindfulness practices in our daily routine that boost a positive outlook. Jon Kabat-Zinn, Ph.D. who’s responsible for bringing the practice of mindfulness to mainstream medicine, defines it as: paying attention in a particular way – on purpose, in the present moment, and nonjudgmentally.

When you allow yourself to be relaxed and aware of the present moment, you can extend openness and curiosity toward your feelings rather than making judgments about them. And more importantly when you extend that to others in gestures of giving, compassion and gratitude, it causes your happiness to grow.

Try these simple mindfulness exercises…

1. Take Pleasure in the Moment. Calm your mind and heart to become aware of the good that’s already present in your life.

How can you do this? Savor the experience in the moment. Hold good thoughts as long as possible. Notice the somatic resonance in your body. Anchor those sensations to be able to access them at will. We’re surrounded by beauty every day. Take the time to really look for and appreciate the good in each moment of life.

2. Express Gratitude. Feeling gratitude and expressing gratitude are two separate things. Research shows that having an attitude of gratitude is good for us. However, expressing gratitude increases happiness levels by 25 percent. Researchers are seeing how cortisol levels, stress levels, heart rate and brain activity are all affected by expressing gratitude. Science is showing that we can actually rewire our brains and develop new neuropathways.

How can you do this? Daily look for times to say “Thank you.” Gratitude journaling makes you aware of past kindnesses. Make a point of sending a card or making a phone call to let people know how they’ve touched you.

3. Connect Your Purpose. Having a sense of meaning in your life may become a defense from life difficulties. This, in turn may preserve your physical and mental health, promote self-acceptance, and ultimately increase happiness.

How can you do this? Focus on your values, how you make the world a better place for your family, friends and neighbors. Think about how you make their lives fuller and richer.

4. Connect with Others by Giving. Humans are not meant to be isolated. We’re meant to interact with others. Giving of your time and resources without expecting anything in return is the best way to connect with others.

How can you do this? Seek out someone in need. And remember that one of the greatest gifts you can give is to listen to them without judgment. The best gifts are not necessarily based on things or money. Love, kindness, concern, thoughtfulness are all gifts. And if someone wants to give back to you, graciously accept their gift.

5. Walk in Their Shoes. When you’re able to empathize with others, you become more compassionate and understanding. Barriers dissolve and relationships flourish as you treat others as you would like them to treat yourself.

How can you do this? Always ask yourself, “If that happened to me, how would I feel and how would I want people to treat me?”

We cannot wait for happiness to find us. We can mindfully cultivate happiness every day. I’d be honored to partner with you in private coaching and group coaching sessions as you expand your ability to consistently make choices that contribute to your personal happiness and that of others. If that sounds good to you, please  contact me and let’s talk.

 

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