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Courageous Self-Loyalty in a Busy World — It's Not Selfish. It's Vital!

Striking a balance between loyalty for self and others means staying true to who we are while honoring our commitments to those we care about. True loyalty is sustainable when we respect both others and ourselves.Do you value and expect loyalty from those closest to you?  When we’re loyal, we’ve got their back no matter what. We never lose faith in them, because we know how devastating disloyalty is — it’s the ultimate betrayal. So, let me ask, Do you have that kind of loyalty for yourself? Or do you think loyalty to others means giving up self-loyalty?

Yes, in good relationships we all make sacrifices and compromises. That’s the give-and-take that helps us dance through life. However, all give and no take makes us off-balanced and unwell. Take, for example, Zoe…

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Skill Set vs. Mindset – Which Will Help You Achieve the Life You Love?

Skill set vs. mindset — which helps you achieve the life you desire? All the skills in the world won’t help you unless you believe you can.From day one, we focused on learning new skills – learning to walk, read, or ride a bike. Academically, we were encouraged to acquire new skills and we dedicated ourselves to building our resume by attending school, getting a degree, and signing up for continuing education. Obviously, a well-rounded skill set is important but what about your mindset? In skill set vs. mindset is there a clear winner when you’re trying to design the life you love?

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Change Your Perspective & Expectations - The Hidden Power to Make Everything Better

Have you ever dropped something and can’t find it? If it’s valuable, you won’t be content with standing in one spot and briefly glancing down. No, you’ll move around, bend over, stoop down, and even get on your knees to look under everything, until you find it. The same goes for life. We’re not stuck with one view. We have the power to take a step back and look at things from a new angle.  And that’s what the Inner Fitness Challenge Tool #7 — Change Your Perspective / Finetune Your Expectations reminds you to do.

Truth be told, there may be certain ideas and beliefs we developed when we were younger that keep us looking at certain things from a child-like angle. We get activated by a challenge and might lack a heightened adult perspective, so we react in a way we regret. But we can develop a heightened perspective —the ability to see an event from multiple perspectives, not just the perspective of our younger self.

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Intentional Living: How to Choose Greater Joy and Happiness Every Day

Intentional living means you choose to be in a specific state or frame of mind that serves your purpose in life.In the hustle and bustle of daily life, it's easy to find ourselves caught up in the routine, often losing sight of our deeper goals and desires. The key to unlocking a life of purpose and fulfillment is intentional living, which the Inner Fitness Challenge Tool #6 – Setting Intentions targets. 

But how do we shift from merely going through the motions to living each day with intention? 

Let’s explore this transformation through the lens of a fitness journey—a familiar and relatable process that beautifully mirrors the steps toward intentional living.

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How Well Do You Know Yourself? The 3-Pronged Approach to Loving Yourself More

How well do you know yourself? Make your journey of self-discovery easier and more rewarding by employing these three elements of self-worth.To want to get to know yourself — from the inside, not through other’s expectations — is a radical act of love. How well do you know yourself? 

Begin the most beautiful journey you will ever take…the journey to self-discovery It starts with cultivating genuine curiosity about YOU, what you like, love, prefer, aspire to. 

Let’s explore the three elements of the Inner Fitness Challenge tool — Self-Love, Self-Respect & Self-Compassion — and how we weave them together to enjoy our journey fully.

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